#12 Punctuality matters!
Timing is important. Don't show up early at her door -- but you never want to keep her waiting. If she lives with roommates, expect to make small talk. This is key, consider it a test, one you can't afford to fail.
#11 Dress the part
We know, you're just a casual dude and you're not into dressing up. Great, now remember you want to be a casual dude with a gf, not your single casual dude self. You're not going out for a beer with your buddy, you're trying to impress a girl. Try.
#10 Pick it up
Do pick up the check -- Most girls are still pretty traditional and prefer that a guy show some classic dating manners like picking up the check for dinner, even if she offers to help.
#9 Learn more
Ask questions that keep the conversation going in a meaningful way. Figure out what she likes and what she's interested in -- you may discover that you two have a lot more in common than you presumed. Show her you're interested in her.
#8 Introduce her
When you're out on a date, sometimes you'll run into people you know. It's important to remember to introduce your date within the first minute that you start chatting with your friend/co-worker/classmate/acquaintance. Don't introduce her as "my friend" and your attentiveness will make it a happy evening for her.
#7 Location, location, location!
Location is key and we can't be more emphatic about this aspect of the date! If you live in the city, it's important that you pick a place close enough to walk her home at the end of the evening. If you are driving, make sure you pick a place where finding parking isn't a problem. If she seems hesitant to go to your first suggested location, suggest another.
#6 No pressure
The worst thing for a girl on a date is pressure, everyone moves at a different pace and the key is making your date feel comfortable.
#5 Pay attention
Go beyond the generic, "You look great" date opening remark. When a guy notices a thoughtful detail about a girl -- a dimple, pretty eyes, great smile -- and compliments her for it, it's smooth sailing towards a perfect date.
#4 Open doors
This is an age-old one that all guys are taught but many seem to forget these days: open the door for your lady! She'll remember the moment you stepped outside your car to open the door for her -- despite your car's one-button unlock function. Small details of chivalry make the evening a perfect 10 for a girl.
#3 Walking the walk
Guys, don't forget that the date doesn't end when she gets out of your car! Take the time to walk her to her door, showing her not only your good manners, but also that you care whether she gets home safely. Plus, she may just invite you in!
#2 Fresh breath
Whether it's pre or post dinner, a guy's got to have fresh breath if he wants to leave a lasting impression.
#1 Kiss me
If everything else goes well, then a kiss is on the list! Gentlemen, don't hesitate if she doesn't kiss you back right away -- she's just as nervous! Whether it's just a gentle peck or a romantic lip-lock, the kiss is important in ensuring a date is perfect at the end of the night.
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