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Life comes with no guarantees that you're life will work out as expected or there will
be a happy ending. I know that normalcy does exist and can be there for those brave
of heart willing to reach out and take hold of the brass ring. I say this women
not to be mean, but we are waiting on the fairy tale that exist solely in the movies.
All men (our men) do not look like Tatum Channing or Matthew Mcconaughey
that is a fact but we love them anyway, if not we never loved them at all. Let's
live in the real world ladies.
I mean how many women have lived with a guy 5 to 10 years and then there
is a baby on the way before a man will propose to the woman he says he loves.What
has happened to family values? I don't mean any harm to my friends that have lived
this, but when the baby is on the way and the couples marry everything is great and
there love for one another becomes stronger. Then the baby is born and by the
child's second or third Birthday the parents are ready to split up. How can you
get along and have a good solid relationship and then your own flesh and blood
change it all?
I envied these people, because they had everything in life I ever wanted, but looks
can be deceiving on the outside looking in. Wouldn't it be great if love could last
forever? It can happen if we do not take the people we love for granted and always
show them the love and respect that we had for them the first time we kissed them
and our toes curled. People are people and when we find them they are doing
and saying everything right. But, you have to realize when you live a life together
there will be bills, jobs and having to deal with the house and kids. People get
bogged down with daily life and forget what is important to them.
I am not going to date until I meet the right person and that person will become
an extension of myself and will compliment me as well as complete me. I know
that there are couples out there that truly love and respect the one that they are
with, but that is what it takes is respect for each other. There is no room in love for
fussing and fighting , because no one ever wins. Everyone has different opinions on
how things should be done, but there is also a thing called compromise. I will
hold off on this since I need to put my career first.
I know I am different from most women and because I don't fall for a wink of
a eye and a come on line. I would never want my man to cheat on me so I have
to respect that I do not date married men or men in relationships. I respect
men that man up and take care of there families. I respect people that are
always trying to perfect themselves and thrive to be all they can be,
I know that guys think I go to the extreme in body building and feel I am
just self centered and competitive but I want to be the best that I can be and
live to be 100, but not if I am sick. Should I get sick I would bow out gracefully
and in the words of the Eagles " It's Your World Now" I love that song.
I wished there was no sickness, no war, no hunger, a great economy and a job
for everyone well enough to perform it. I wished there was no disasters
and that everyone could live in harmony. In the words of Anne Murray
We could use a little good news today.
