Typically the idea of waiting is full of negative emotions. Twenty first century culture demands everything RIGHT NOW. There is consistently a new upgrade for faster.... everything. From our instant communication via cell phones and internet to even the food we eat, there is a constant expectation that everything should be fast.
Have you ever clicked on a program on your computer and then because it didn't immediately appear, click it 20 more times just to have it open all 20 times a few seconds later?
It is so easy for us to get frustrated when we don't get what we want immediately. Think about the devices you have- cell phone, computer, internet- any of it. Now think back 10 years. Or even less than that. Remember how much SLOWER everything was? There is a constant acceleration of all those little things that are supposed to save time, yet our lives seem to get busier and busier.
So. You're seeking the Lord and He responds to you- not with a yes, not with a no, but a "WAIT." What is your reaction?
Do we even know how to wait anymore??
In recent days, the Lord has placed an expectation in the hearts of many of His followers for the coming age. There is a sense among a whole lot of believers right now that something is about to change. Some have hope of fulfilled dreams. Others don't know what to expect- it's just a sense that something is about to happen. But for now? We wait.
While our culture demands everything fast- we actually do have some sense of waiting. In all actuality, our "now" demands have set us up to have more expectant waiting than ever before. Years ago, you sent a letter to someone and you knew you had to wait for it to get to the person, then even once he or she responded, it had to go through the mail all over again to get back to you. Therefore, when you drop the letter in the mail, you may not even think about it again for a while. You might even forget about it. Now, if you shoot a message to someone through email, it's perfectly normal to receive something back even the same day. We've grown to expect it.
We expect a quick response from most everything these days. From microwaves, to the new annoying second-by-second mini news feed on facebook, everything is RIGHT NOW. While waiting for your food in the fast food line, what do you think about? You may sit and think about what you have to do later on or about that phone call you need to make, but all the while you sit there with an expectation that food is coming quickly. You may be thinking on other things, but you definitely haven't forgotten that you are about to have food. In fact, you may even find yourself getting frustrated if it takes a little longer than expected.
So I ask again.... When the Lord tells you to wait, how do you react? What do you do? What SHOULD you do?
Well. To be honest, I don't know.
Wait I guess?
No, but seriously. What does waiting look like? What is the "doing" in the "waiting"?
Well, heres what I know about waiting. When I wait, there's an expectancy for a certain result. As I wait, I am consistently thinking of that "expected end." I look forward with nervousness, frustration or excitement depending on the situation. Nervousness comes when I've got time to freak myself out about the results ahead- its that butterflies in the stomach feeling you get when you're about to give a speech or something. Frustration comes when I am simply sick of waiting- usually this is when I've got somewhere to be and somethings or someone is holding me up. Excitement in waiting is when I know something awesome is up ahead. Its when our usual reaction is, "I can't wait!"
When God says wait, why do I so often choose nervousness or frustration? Why is it that I've allowed culture to tell me waiting is negative? Why do I let myself get caught up in what I am supposed to DO in this moment?
Waiting is not about the doing, but instead, it's more a mindset. Its inserted hope. Its something we can expect.
Galatians 5:5 says, " For we through the Spirit, by faith, are waiting for the hope of righteousness."
So often, our faith is about waiting on the Lord. We expect right relationship with Him and do all we can by faith. He shows up without fail every time. What a faithful God we have!
So maybe we should start changing our view of waiting. Instead of dreading the process, and associating waiting with long doctors office visits or being stuck in traffic with some place to be, lets choose hope.
Waiting IS hope. If it's our faithful King whose saying it, we know there's an incredible end we can expect. When the Lord tells us to wait, He's doing something for our good and is promising us a good outcome.
Hope for it.
Expect it.
Wait on the Lord.
"But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint."
Isaiah 40:31
I was never much of a religious man, but I'm certainly an addict of instant gratification. Even microwaves are too slow for me. I am insufferably impatient.
ReplyDeleteEven so, my time in the military taught me to appreciate waiting. Waiting gives you ample time to think, and thought is a fine cure for rash decisions. Beyond that, there are many times in life where an unpleasant event is inevitable. You can't prevent unpleasantries, but you can learn to appreciate the time you have before unpleasant things happen. Taxes are due soon; I don't want to pay them. Waiting is good there. I get a new apartment soon; I will enjoy that. Waiting is bad there. Experiencing both has taught me respect for time itself. While I don't always like to wait, I do respect and appreciate the impartial nature of time. Time has no bias; it gives the same number of seconds to every minute. It doesn't matter if it's a minute we'll treasure or a minute we'll loathe.
The point is that I respect waiting. It can be enjoyable or stressful, but it is unavoidable. Constant, impartial... and reliable. We'll always have something to wait on, but time is the most dependable friend you could have. Never flinching. Always moving. I can wait for time, because time has waited eternally and still hasn't been given a lunch break. Someone outta look into that. At least give time a pay raise. But no rush; time can wait. And so can I.
Thanks Dominic for your input. Waiting can be a good thing really, we can see things we never knew was there by standing in one spot long enough.
ReplyDeleteThe thing is in today's would no one is willing to wait for anything. We fuss when the fast food windows move to slow or when it is after 10:30 and Micky D's is no longer serving breakfast.
We actually stress ourselves out by wanting everything right now. You go into an ER and gripe because you have to wait, and some even leave and go home. There are no quick cures and some times a diagnosis can take months instead of one ER visit, but people give up only to find out a year later they are gravely ill. Why could they had not waited to have all the necessary test ran and followed up?
Slow down, good things happen for those who wait. Reduce your stress levels by patience. The world just goes far too fast and if we allow ourselves to get caught up in it and never slow down there is no time to stop and smell the roses. Take time for you the sun will come up tomorrow and you can start all over again.