Growing Up

There comes a time when we must grow-up and become accountable for our actions. We must stop blaming our parents, the boyfriend or girlfriend that broke our heart and move on with life. Life does not wait around while we throw our little pity parties, because someone hurt our feelings. Yes, there are many things that may happen in our lives that will destroy us if we let it. It could be losing a parent,a child, a sibling or the love of our life or sickness. It is hard to lose those we love most in the world. The pain is always there, but how we handle it is what makes or breaks us. 

So many times I personally have felt as if I cannot go on with life.I have been so depressed I simply could not get out of bed to start my day. Then I learn to live one day at a time, forgetting yesterday, living for today and focusing on tomorrow when it arrives. I have such good advice, but it is a everyday battle to achieve this way of living. It is certainly not for the weak of heart. 

When you think all is well in your life finally someone will come along and pull the rug out from beneath you. There are many people not happy in there own lives that they feel they must try to sabotage the life of others. I have fallen again recently, but I am striving to regain my composer and living life again as it was before the turmoil began . My life is not always perfect, but always manage to fix what was broken. Hearts cannot be mended they simply stay broken, but the person must adapt to life without someone they love. I am a survivor I will survive what ever comes my way, but trusting people now is a thing of the past. 

I shall strive to be my best, I will at some point conquer my fears, I will change what I can and give the rest to God, He and he alone shall sustain me,