Sunday, September 15, 2013

Love Is About Taking Chances



LOVE or LIKE you decide =D
Being around people who has relationship with their other half has brought me one step closer to actually understanding them. Relationships are indeed a roller coaster ride and it is never a bed of roses. TRUST ME when I tell you that. There is one incident I love and the view of it is just wow like wow wow.

As we all know every relationship starts off as friendship.This two characters I am going to introduce are college mates as that's how they met. This boy I shall name him Q and the girl I shall name her H.  You readers ready for adventures ? Here goes ....

Q met H in college as mentioned above. Everyday H would go have lunch or tea just to know Q. Although Q was busy ; he would set aside everything and spend some time with H. So many days , weeks and months passed and they grew fonder towards each other. It felt like they knew each for so long. It was indeed a special bond what they both shared to the extend some people thought Q and H are together.

Few months through their friendship , H found herself in a relationship with someone else. That I must say was a turning point for the both of them I guess. When Q found out that , he distanced himself and never saw H at all. On the other hand, H was trying reach Q but every attempt it failed. It came to a point where H got herself embarassed and Q was watching that incident.

It was months later , Q knew H was back being single. Another turning point much? Q was into another girl and H was happy for him. Sadly , Q was not able to get the girl he wanted. Q was cool as he got to spend time with H.

Their friendship was massive for two years. H and Q always fight and tease and bully one another. Did I mention if fight it's massive fight over petty stuffs. The beauty of the fights is somehow they still manage to stand side by side one another. H always loved to bully Q and H felt she could be herself without feeling any fear. Q on the other hand was forever the victim but never once did he show his anger.

Q and H were busy so they hardly met but they still kept in touch. Technically Q was doing the keeping in touch as H was so stressed up and caught up with things till she actually went MIA from her close friends and never went out occasionally.

One fine day, Q met H and normal moments as usual took place. Q was telling H , he likes some girl. Q just listened and adviced as usual but never for a second asked who was that girl. H realized Q was not wanting to know who and all thus he himself asked H "Don't you want to know who is the girl ?". H then asked Q who the girl is with a smile on her face as she was excited for Q. Moments then Q replied it's you. H was shocked and all she could do was to hug Q and scolded Q for now realizing her presence.

Q and H still remained in the friendzone for GOD knows what reason. Few months down the road , Q and H had a massive fight and that fight sort of scared Q out. Q didn't want to loose the beautiful friendship they had and Q lost H once and he knew the pain of it. The best part was even if Q didn't explain what's bound to be said H knew immediately what it was all about. Q confessed he purposely created fight. H was upset she told Q next time just tell don't fight to get your message across.

Just recently , Q and H was insanely joking till H just said "I don't see the point of you being scared and even if I do go with other guys ; you better not be away from me". Without any thoughts , Q replied H " I won't also cause I am trapped with you". That kind of disturbed H mind the whole day. The following day , H asked Q again and Q said " I actually hope you get a nice guy who can take care of you". H was shocked and said chill got long way ahead of us till then we just enjoy la.

You know it is very rare to see this kind of friendship. Relationship is all about taking the risk while Friendship is all about trust.


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