Monday, September 9, 2013

How To Tell If A Man Loves You



 #10 - They Get Unusually Happy When They See You

It feels good to be noticed and loved by someone whose only wish is to be with you, spend their Time with you and share their lives with you. If someone is truly in love with you and haven’t had The courage to speak their heart out yet and you suspect they do, look at their actions when you’re Around. In my case, whenever my girlfriend used to be around me when I hadn't asked her out, I used to forget everything else around me and pay an immense level of attention on her and her Only. Then I finally found the courage to ask for her hand and I’m glad I did. It can be a bit difficult For girls though. So guys, if you have a best friend who’s always talking to you in person, over texts, On calls, they worry if you’re sick and they get really happy when you succeed in something, maybe You need to make things easier for them and make them ask the question.

 #9 - They Go Over-The-Top For You

When someone is madly in love with you, they make sure you get the message by their actions if They’re too scared to use their words. They make sure they always remember your birthday, they Make sure they celebrate every happy occasion with you, they make sure you feel like royalty by The way they treat you. After the first few times, it gets pretty obvious if they want to be with you or Not, and if so - you need to make a move and make sure you don’t let them go. True love is almost Non-existent in today’s world and if someone still cares this much about you then you better make Them yours before someone else swoops in and takes them away.

 #8 - They Get Shy Around You Easily

True love is a powerful and precious feeling, and when someone wants to make you theirs it gets Really hard to make a move without having the fear of driving you away and losing you forever. I don’t know if other guys get shy around the girls they love but I surely did. I used to get so shy in Front of my crush that I couldn’t even talk properly in front of her. And I made sure every word I Spoke and every action I made was impressive and awesome. She eventually got the hint and Made me strong enough to finally ask her out, I love her for doing that to this very day. If you notice A particular person acting shy or getting red cheeks in front of you, you need to make a move Because they sure can’t.

 #7 - Their Level Of Interest For You Is Incredible

So you have a close friend who is genuinely very interested in your life. They ask you about your Goals, your favorite movies, your favorite TV shows, your favorite food etc. Then they make sure They are well-aware of the stuff you like so they can have a bigger conversation with you about Everything you like. It’s very sweet and pure when someone makes an effort to make you smile So you better not let that go by going out with someone who won’t even care about what you Care about. Don’t let that friend go and make them yours. Best friends make some of the most Successful couples.

 #6 - They Are Never Out Of Your Reach

You notice a particular friend of yours is always there for you. No matter what their routine is, they Always make sure you get the proper time and attention you deserve. They get particularly caring When you’re sad or sick. They get extremely happy when you achieve something. They genuinely Take time out for you and always will. That particular friend is deeply and truly in love with you. Don’t let them go, it’s not easy finding someone who would give up their schedules and their time For you and your happiness.

 #5 - They Are All Ears When You Speak

This one is important. Have you noticed a friend who is actually listening to everything you say? Generally, people don’t pay attention when the conversation gets to long or if the topic isn’t to Their liking. But if you have a person in your life who always genuinely listens to you and lets you Know they’re interested in whatever you’re talking about, you need to lock that person down and Make them yours.

 #4 - They Always Make You Laugh And Smile

This might seem repetitive but is important. It really does feel good to know there’s a person who Genuinely wants you to smile and makes you laugh specially when you’re down or sad. That Person is selfless and loving and they are madly in love with you. It’s really hard to find selfless And pure love these days. Don’t let them go and make sure their smile matters to you as much as Yours to them.

 #3 - They Share Everything With You

We’ve all had troubling times in our lives, dark pasts and what have you. It’s not easy sharing all the Dark and depressing details of those times with anyone. But if you have a person in your life who Always shares everything with you, who feels better after sharing their bad times with you, who Doesn’t mind crying in front of you, that person is in love with you because no one exposes their Weaknesses in front of others without trusting them blindly and completely.

 #2 - They Give You Hints Every Now And Then

This one is really important. A friend of mine had a close friend in college, she used to like him a lot. He used to like her too but was always scared to make a move. One day, she told him she was getting engaged, we later found out she was making it up but that one line was enough for my friend to ask her out. Had she not done that, my friend would've kept waiting for the right moment And someone else would've taken her away. They’re still together after three years now. So my Point is, pay attention to your close friends. If they try giving you hints you need to get the message And avoid making a mistake. A mistake that you would regret for the rest of your life.

 #1 - You’re Always Number One On Their List

Like I said, if someone madly loves you, you’re the most important person in their life. They always Ask you before making a big move (be it business or studies), they always come to you for advice And are always interested in every word of yours. They always invite you to dinners and parties Before asking anyone else. They always pay more attention to you than their closest of friends. If you notice this happening around you, be open to the fact that you won’t find anyone like them.


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