Shine Bright Like a Diamond

There is a saying that goes by "A picture is worth a thousand words".

I had this wacky imagination upon seeing this picture and it just lead me to bring in two souls I know and maybe there may truths in it or fantasy that I shall leave for you all to wonder and ponder. Let the journey begin....

Having friends turning to their partners or the other half didn't seem to bother me much as I knew deep down there will be someone somewhere out there. Never did I even think of who will it be , where will I meet the person , How will they look like , Will I give a good impression and etc. but I knew in mind whoever that person is going to be will be someone whom I have known or met as GOD has his mysterious ways to connect people.

We walk the paths we choose and at times we tend to stumble upon diamonds and at times rocks. Diamonds are rare to find and it will be treasured like gold once found but for the world it somehow turns to be a green monster. I found myself two unique diamonds along the path that I was afraid to travel alone but it didn't turn out so bad as it seems. This two unique diamonds what amazes me was the bond between them. Growing up with boys I have seen many kinds of bond but not with this two diamonds. Their bond is incredibly different and as I learn their ways there is no way I can be at their level. The more I try , the more I stumble down. It's not the barriers or the walls it's just that this two diamonds have some sort of telepathy or bro codes of their own that no one will be able to understand. I admire their bond as it is an art of communication of its own.

Knowing their bond , I told one of the diamonds to not let anyone get into your bond as jealousy may occur and trust me out there somewhere someone is highly jealous with bonds you have with someone else thus problems and issues takes place. Anything could happen so bear in mind never take things for granted.

What if one of the diamonds were to fall in love that leaves the other diamond alone but not in this case. There may come a time where the diamond may part ways as the diamond has to fulfill the needs of being committed to a relationship. What happens to the other diamond you may ask ; that diamond will have ways to overcome but will NEVER forget to give the diamond a buzz to say hello

Days...weeks...months...years passed by everything changes as responsibilities increases and commitments.

One day, both the diamonds happen to bump into each other at their once upon a time favorite hot spot. A sudden gush of memories flash through their minds. They decided to sit down and catch up as it has been days..weeks..months passed by so fast. They had their share of laughter as past memories came knocking their minds. It felt good going back to the past and reliving their childhood memories to college memories right to the moment they went different directions to build a better future for themselves. Few hours passed by , both diamonds in a way missed each other's presence and realized   they have come along way to reach where they are now.

Time came again where they had to part ways but they promised to meet again soon. As one diamond left to head home ; the other diamond felt like taking a stroll as memories was lingering around. The diamond went to a park and tried to loose the sadness within. No matter how hard the diamond tried to let go the feeling but it kept pestering him.

The park that was once filled with laughter has now turned to a dark , gloomy place where the diamond could feel the presence of loneliness and despair and hurt. The diamond took a look around trying to recall how it was once upon a time. It took awhile for the diamond to realize that time has indeed passed by so fast and the diamond sat on a bench gazing at the park.

The diamond had this sudden feelings coming in mind and the diamond was trying so much to not give in to those emotions. The diamond got up from the bench and walked slowly trying to figure out how to make up for the loss made with the other diamond. The longer the diamond spent at the park ; the diamond seemed to be getting all sort of ideas and plans to repair the bond that the diamonds had once.

The diamond looked at the park from a distance and what the diamond could sense was a feeling of despair and sadness as there were a lot off hidden secrets that this diamond couldn't tell the other diamond as it has been ages since they saw each other. This phrase suddenly was playing in the diamonds mind ".Why is there nothing I can do? I see such pain, such destruction, so many things that shouldn't be happening. There has to be something that I can do. Even if it’s just something small, Anything at all, because I can’t take this anymore ; afterall we grew up together".The diamond felt  heart broken and shattered. The diamond broke down in tears and saw a sudden light flickering on the lamp post and the diamond gazed upon the lamp post and asked GOD not to foresake the diamond in his darkest hour. A sudden gush of cold wind appeared and the diamond felt calmed and had a sudden flame of courage burning as it was like a second shot given by GOD ; thus the diamond picked up the cell phone and buzzed the other diamond and told everything that took place.

Being such cool diamonds , all it took was one phone call to fix things between and one diamond to believe in miracles. GOD sure works in mysterious ways and shows the light to people who calls upon him as HE does not foresake anyone in their darkest hour.

Everyone deserves a second chance to prove their worth. Friendships / relationships will have its ups and downs but that doesn't mean it is going to be a bed of roses. It requires FAITH and never for a second doubt in MIRACLES. Coming back to the diamonds ; both the diamonds are back to how they use to be but something never changed that is the park that remained gloomy and eerie at night. As the diamond walks pass there to remind the diamond what good has GOD done ; the diamond indeed is thankful and feels blessed.

One cold night, the diamond just felt like strolling the park at midnight and the diamond noticed a gang chilling and sharing stuffs. The diamond smiled ; as it reminded about the past how awesome it was and the naughty stuff they did and etc. The diamond learnt something at the end of the journey that is "Everything changes except true friendship bond remains solid even heaven or hell can come down but never will it break".

From that day onwards , the diamond has never forgotten about the other diamond no doubt having responsibilities but the diamonds did a commitment of meeting up during the weekends and every year for New Year's they will have a get together to symbolize and cheers to their everlasting friendship.

Love Is About Taking Chances

LOVE or LIKE you decide =D
Being around people who has relationship with their other half has brought me one step closer to actually understanding them. Relationships are indeed a roller coaster ride and it is never a bed of roses. TRUST ME when I tell you that. There is one incident I love and the view of it is just wow like wow wow.

As we all know every relationship starts off as friendship.This two characters I am going to introduce are college mates as that's how they met. This boy I shall name him Q and the girl I shall name her H.  You readers ready for adventures ? Here goes ....

Q met H in college as mentioned above. Everyday H would go have lunch or tea just to know Q. Although Q was busy ; he would set aside everything and spend some time with H. So many days , weeks and months passed and they grew fonder towards each other. It felt like they knew each for so long. It was indeed a special bond what they both shared to the extend some people thought Q and H are together.

Few months through their friendship , H found herself in a relationship with someone else. That I must say was a turning point for the both of them I guess. When Q found out that , he distanced himself and never saw H at all. On the other hand, H was trying reach Q but every attempt it failed. It came to a point where H got herself embarassed and Q was watching that incident.

It was months later , Q knew H was back being single. Another turning point much? Q was into another girl and H was happy for him. Sadly , Q was not able to get the girl he wanted. Q was cool as he got to spend time with H.

Their friendship was massive for two years. H and Q always fight and tease and bully one another. Did I mention if fight it's massive fight over petty stuffs. The beauty of the fights is somehow they still manage to stand side by side one another. H always loved to bully Q and H felt she could be herself without feeling any fear. Q on the other hand was forever the victim but never once did he show his anger.

Q and H were busy so they hardly met but they still kept in touch. Technically Q was doing the keeping in touch as H was so stressed up and caught up with things till she actually went MIA from her close friends and never went out occasionally.

One fine day, Q met H and normal moments as usual took place. Q was telling H , he likes some girl. Q just listened and adviced as usual but never for a second asked who was that girl. H realized Q was not wanting to know who and all thus he himself asked H "Don't you want to know who is the girl ?". H then asked Q who the girl is with a smile on her face as she was excited for Q. Moments then Q replied it's you. H was shocked and all she could do was to hug Q and scolded Q for now realizing her presence.

Q and H still remained in the friendzone for GOD knows what reason. Few months down the road , Q and H had a massive fight and that fight sort of scared Q out. Q didn't want to loose the beautiful friendship they had and Q lost H once and he knew the pain of it. The best part was even if Q didn't explain what's bound to be said H knew immediately what it was all about. Q confessed he purposely created fight. H was upset she told Q next time just tell don't fight to get your message across.

Just recently , Q and H was insanely joking till H just said "I don't see the point of you being scared and even if I do go with other guys ; you better not be away from me". Without any thoughts , Q replied H " I won't also cause I am trapped with you". That kind of disturbed H mind the whole day. The following day , H asked Q again and Q said " I actually hope you get a nice guy who can take care of you". H was shocked and said chill got long way ahead of us till then we just enjoy la.

You know it is very rare to see this kind of friendship. Relationship is all about taking the risk while Friendship is all about trust.

Is your relationship going anywhere?

As a romance grows and the weeks turn into months, couples usually start to make plans together. Whether it's concert tickets for a few weeks away, or your first summer holiday together, making plans together is a sure signal that you're getting ready to commit. If, however, a few months have passed and you're still living in the moment and not looking beyond the present, it could well be that one or both of you isn't interested in getting serious.

Sure, it's nice to be told that you have a beautiful smile, gorgeous eyes and soft, silky hair - those kind of compliments are always welcome. But as a relationship develops, your partner will also make admiring comments about your personality - your intelligence, your humour, your compassion and your principles. The spiritual union of two people always begins by deep mutual admiration, so if you think that your partner is beginning to 'get you', then you're on your way to your relationship becoming a serious thing.

Hanging out, having fun and laughing are key parts of a relationship. If you and your partner can relax together, make jokes and really share moments of joy and good humour then it could be the start of a bond that will deepen into something special. Some say that laughter is the shortest distance between two people - it means having a common communication code. That's certainly an excellent omen for a lasting courtship.

Kissing can be wild, crazy, passionate - and it can be tender, cuddly and affectionate. Both kinds are very, very nice - but it's the tender affectionate kind that signals romance and commitment, rather than simple sexual attraction. If your partner kisses and hugs you spontaneously, with no apparent cause or reason other than to show you love, then you could well be onto a winner.

Now, we're not talking about rushing things and discussing love, kids and marriage when you've only been together a short time - that's often a good way to crush the delicate flower of a blooming romance. However, if you've been together four or five months and your partner is still completely evading some issues, you might just have a problem on your hands.

They say a picture is worth a thousand words, and that the eyes are the windows to the soul. If you can and your partner can look deep into each other's eyes and hold each other's gaze - no secrets - then it's a good signal that you're ready to commit to one another.

A serious relationship is based, in large part, on companionship and mutual support. If you've been dating your new partner for a while and they come to you with a problem or concern, or ask you for advice, then that indicates that you're becoming important to them and they value your opinion.

If your new partner arrives at your date with some small or big surprise, it indicates that they've been thinking of you. A person in love is in your head to be loved all day, and not only at times when you're together.Bear in mind that, as a relationship matures, it's little gestures like this that keep the love alive and prevent either of you feeling that you're being taken for granted.

A person who is happy in their new relationship wants to show their partner off to the world. The decision to introduce each other to friends or family may take a few weeks or maybe months, and it's advisable to take the time to get to know each other well first. However, if you've been together several months and your partner still isn't keen on you meeting their friends or family, then it might be that they're not taking the relationship seriously or they have something to hide.

A person who is happy in their new relationship wants to show their partner off to the world. The decision to introduce each other to friends or family may take a few weeks or maybe months, and it's advisable to take the time to get to know each other well first. However, if you've been together several months and your partner still isn't keen on you meeting their friends or family, then it might be that they're not taking the relationship seriously or they have something to hide.

One of the loveliest things about being in a caring relationship is having someone with whom to share your day-to-day news, gossip and gripes. If you can listen patiently as they talk about the troubles they've been having a rival at work - and they're happy to hear you moan about the stuff that's been bothering you too - then you're on your way to a committed and supportive relationship.

Every Girl's Perfect Date

#12 Punctuality matters!
Timing is important. Don't show up early at her door -- but you never want to keep her waiting. If she lives with roommates, expect to make small talk. This is key, consider it a test, one you can't afford to fail.


#11 Dress the part
We know, you're just a casual dude and you're not into dressing up. Great, now remember you want to be a casual dude with a gf, not your single casual dude self. You're not going out for a beer with your buddy, you're trying to impress a girl. Try.


#10 Pick it up
Do pick up the check -- Most girls are still pretty traditional and prefer that a guy show some classic dating manners like picking up the check for dinner, even if she offers to help.


#9 Learn more
Ask questions that keep the conversation going in a meaningful way. Figure out what she likes and what she's interested in -- you may discover that you two have a lot more in common than you presumed. Show her you're interested in her.


#8 Introduce her
When you're out on a date, sometimes you'll run into people you know. It's important to remember to introduce your date within the first minute that you start chatting with your friend/co-worker/classmate/acquaintance. Don't introduce her as "my friend" and your attentiveness will make it a happy evening for her.


#7 Location, location, location!
Location is key and we can't be more emphatic about this aspect of the date! If you live in the city, it's important that you pick a place close enough to walk her home at the end of the evening. If you are driving, make sure you pick a place where finding parking isn't a problem. If she seems hesitant to go to your first suggested location, suggest another.


#6 No pressure
The worst thing for a girl on a date is pressure, everyone moves at a different pace and the key is making your date feel comfortable.


#5 Pay attention
Go beyond the generic, "You look great" date opening remark. When a guy notices a thoughtful detail about a girl -- a dimple, pretty eyes, great smile -- and compliments her for it, it's smooth sailing towards a perfect date.


#4 Open doors
This is an age-old one that all guys are taught but many seem to forget these days: open the door for your lady! She'll remember the moment you stepped outside your car to open the door for her -- despite your car's one-button unlock function. Small details of chivalry make the evening a perfect 10 for a girl.


#3 Walking the walk
Guys, don't forget that the date doesn't end when she gets out of your car! Take the time to walk her to her door, showing her not only your good manners, but also that you care whether she gets home safely. Plus, she may just invite you in!


#2 Fresh breath
Whether it's pre or post dinner, a guy's got to have fresh breath if he wants to leave a lasting impression.


#1 Kiss me
If everything else goes well, then a kiss is on the list! Gentlemen, don't hesitate if she doesn't kiss you back right away -- she's just as nervous! Whether it's just a gentle peck or a romantic lip-lock, the kiss is important in ensuring a date is perfect at the end of the night.

Biggest Relationship Mistakes

#15 Forgetting to Be Friends
The root of a healthy relationship is friendship. Don't let your romance (or lack thereof) make you forget that.


#14 Intentionally Saying Hurtful Things
This is a tactic that some people just didn't grow out of after high school like they should have. Even when you are arguing with each other, don't say things that you know will hurt them. Don't disrespect them or say something that could affect them negatively.


#13 Not Resolving Conflict
It's become pretty popular to avoid saying "I'm sorry" at all costs these days. This may work for you if you'd like to make your partner feel terrible, but owning up to your mistakes will be worth it for both of you.


#12 Can't Handle Distance
It is not uncommon for someone to have a job that takes them far away at times. Some people are not cut out for a relationship like this but will make the mistake of trying to stick with it anyway. It may seem brutal to break it off because you can't handle the distance, but in the end you will only be saving each other from years of misery.


#11 No Romance
Sure, feeling like you're in a chick flick can be pretty cheesy, but sometimes it's those cheesy little moments that really show your partner that you care.


#10 Not Handling Embarrassment
A lot of people will accept being with someone that makes them feel embarrassed, or worse, someone that is embarrassed to be seen with them. Don't sell yourself short just because you're afraid of being alone. You owe them and yourself the respect to get out.


#9 Not Compromising
Let him pick where you go to eat if you get to pick the movie or vice versa. In the end, neither of you will really care what you did that day, but you'll always remember that you were both willing to do something just because the other person likes it.


#8 Not Being on the Same Page
Some couples have a problem with one person feeling more committed than the other. The best way to ensure this problem never arises is to make sure you're on the same page about everything. Talk it out, assure your partner of how you feel about them.


#7 Not Seeing Things From Their View
You need empathy to get through any other relationship in your life -- with co-workers, your family, your friends -- why should it be different with your partner?


#6 Making Assumptions
One of the biggest assumptions made in a relationship is thinking that your partner is a certain way just because you met someone else that's that way too. The whole "all guys/girls are the same" idea gets old fast.


#5 Pretending to Like Things You Don't
This is a textbook mistake that people have been making since the beginning of time! Be with someone that shares your interests or at least someone that respect your differences, you will be much happier.


#4 Expecting Things to Change
This is a hard lesson for some people to learn, but you can't change your boyfriend/girlfriend. Only they can do that and only when they decide to. If you're waiting it out, expecting something wonderful to happen, you're only wasting your time.


#3 Constant Fighting
You may have been raised to think that men and women are supposed to fight like cats and dogs, but this is far from true. If you find yourself fighting nearly every day just to make yourself heard, it's probably time to head out or send your partner packing.


#2 Avoiding the Issues
Couples that argue all the time are not healthy, however couples that never discuss the tough issues may be worse. If you both keep sweeping problems under the rug and pretending to be happy, the downfall may be drastic.


#1 Expecting Marriage to Fix Everything
Too many couples hurry to the alter expecting it to magically fix everything. Marriage certainly can feel magical sometimes, but it does not make life suddenly perfect.

The Way to Every Sign's Heart

#12 Pisces – Get Creative
Pisces are creative types who love to express their artistic sides. Join him at an art class or spend some time together in the kitchen, without a recipe.


#11 Aquarius – Get Quirky
Aquarians march to the beat of their own drum, so you'll need to appreciate their quirks. Discover what revs them and take an interest, even if it seems a bit kooky to you. You might even develop a love of xylophone symphonies!


#10 Capricorn – Get Domestic
Capricorns are one of the more reserved signs in the zodiac, so if you want to be with them you'll need to appreciate a good night on. They'll love you to cook a meal for them, so drag out those recipe books. End your evening snuggled up on the couch with a DVD.


#9 Sagittarius – Get Social
Sagittarians are the life of any party, and they'll want you to join them in the center. You can still have your intimate dinners for two, but you'll need to balance them with bigger social occasions. Plan double-dates with your best friends and some great dinner parties!


#8 Scorpio – Get Passionate
Scorpios are amongst the most intense signs in the zodiac, and they appreciate that passion in others. No Scorpio wants to date someone who's wishy washy. Speak enthusiastically about your interests, your work, and your feelings for your main squeeze, and your Scorpio will be eating out of the palm of your hand.


#7 Libra – Get Romantic
While many modern men and dismiss classic romantic gestures as tired clichés, Libras lap them up. Arrive on their doorstep with chocolates and flowers and whisk them away for a candlelit dinner to make them swoon. Don't forget to dress up too!


#6 Virgo – Get Healthy
Virgos care about their health, and the one you have your eye on will want you to do the same. Join your Virgo's gym or find an active class you'll both enjoy. Then invite them to yours for a yummy and nutritious meal cooked with organic, seasonal produce.


#5 Leo – Get Pampering
Just like the lion we associate with the star sign, a Leo loves to be adored. Leos are happiest when they're the center of attention. Make sure to throw compliments their way and don't hold back on the PDA!


#4 Cancer – Get Traditional
Cancers are old-fashioned types who value traditional values. Invite yours to dinner with your relatives and a Cancer will fall at your feet. Watch early Mad Men for a little inspiration!


#3 Gemini – Get Spontaneous
Geminis bore easily, so you'll need to keep yours guessing. Plan new experiences for your dates, the more unusual and daring the better. Embracing your adventurous side is the key to a Gemini's heart.


#2 Taurus – Get Charitable
Taurus is one of the most generous sides of the zodiac, and they'll be impressed if you want to give back. Why not organize a date volunteering at a soup kitchen or helping out at a local animal shelter? Your Taurus will love your humanitarian side!


#1 Aries – Get Competitive
Aries love competition, so keep it sporty. Join them for a game of one-on-one basketball, or a round of bowling. You needn't be a natural athlete either. Your Aries will love that you're trying your best to win!

How to Make Your Woman Swoon

#15 Tell Her She's Beautiful
Women love compliments but none as much as those that come from the one they love. There should never be any doubt in her mind that you find her attractive. Tell her every time.


#14 Reassure Her
Be the guy that's always in her corner, giving her sincere reassurance. If she's worried about that big interview, tell her how smart she is and what a great employee she'll be. If she's nervous about her new haircut, tell her how hot she looks. Whatever it is, just reassure her.


#13 Treat Her Like a Real Lady
It doesn't matter if she drives monster trucks for a living and hasn't worn a dress since childhood, every woman loves it when a man treats her like a lady. Bring her flowers, make her candlelight dinners, leave her love notes. Do all of those little "cheesy" things you might feel silly doing because they will make her feel like she is loved.


#12 Talk Her Up to Others
People don't like it when others talk about them behind their back unless something good is being said. When someone asks about your girl, tell them how amazing she is. It will eventually get back to her and when it does, she will love you for it.


#11 Be Helpful and Understanding
This is especially huge if she gets into some kind of trouble or is under a lot of stress. Be understanding of her situation and try to help her however you can.



#10 Listen To Her
Remember that you can hear someone without actually listening to them. When you listen to her, take a genuine interest in the things she has to say and respond by consoling her. This isn't a time to give her advice (unless she asks for it), she probably just wants to know you care.


#9 Just A Kiss
Don't be the kind of guy that only kisses when it can turn into something more. Show her you love to kiss her any time, not just when it could lead to a make-out session or sex.


#8 Tell Her When You Miss Her
You may think that being in love sort of automatically implies that you'd miss each other when there is distance between you, but it doesn't mean she doesn't still want to hear it.



#7 Embrace Her Quirks
Maybe she knows more about the world of comics than you and loves to knit or make crafts. Embrace all of those "odd" little things that make her who she is. In fact, those are probably all of the little things you adore about her.


#6 Admit When You're Wrong
It's like the old saying goes "do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?" Say you're sorry, it's worth it.


#5 Watch Her Favorite Film
So she watches The Vow too much, you're probably sick of hearing it but if you watch it with her voluntarily, you just might find yourself in one of those romantic situations she's always watching in the movies.


#4 Go The Extra Mile
There are a bunch of little things you can do each day to show her how much you care. Walk her home or surprise her with lunch at work. Do little things every day that go above what she was expecting and she'll be completely swept off her feet.


#3 Whisper Sweet Nothings
Lean in close and whisper something sweet to her. Tell her how beautiful she is or how much you love her. She'll love the intimate moment between you two.


#2 Smile At Her
One of the quickest ways to grab her attention is by making eye contact and smiling. Extra points if you wink like Ryan here (of course, if you happen to look anything like Ryan Gosling, you probably don't need to do anything more)


#1 Let Her Know You're Smitten
Women want to know their wanted and that their man is always eager to see her. You will make her happy by showing her that she is your every happiness.